Frequently Asked Questions About Cat Behavior

Why do cats rub against everything?

This behavior, called bunting, is a primary way cats mark their territory. They have scent glands on their cheeks, chin, forehead, and at the base of their tail. By rubbing against you, furniture, and other objects in the home, they are depositing their unique scent (pheromones). This creates a familiar, comforting environment that essentially smells like “home” and “family.” It’s a very positive social behavior.

Is it bad if my cat stares at me?

It depends entirely on the context. A hard, unblinking stare with a tense body and constricted pupils can be a sign of aggression or a challenge. In this case, you should slowly look away to de-escalate. However, a soft, relaxed gaze, often accompanied by slow blinks, is a sign of affection and trust. Your cat is simply observing you and feeling comfortable in your presence.

Why does my cat bite me gently when I pet them?

This is often referred to as “petting-induced aggression” or a “love bite,” and it usually happens because the cat has become overstimulated. The line between pleasurable petting and annoying overstimulation is very thin for some cats. The gentle bite is their way of saying, “That’s enough now.” Watch for warning signs that precede the bite, such as a twitching tail, skin rippling on their back, or ears turning back. When you see these signals, it’s best to stop petting before the bite occurs.